"It’s ironic that in Interstellar, Cooper appears more emotionally invested in Murph, even though Tom is the one who consistently reaches out to him through video messages.
Tom stays loyal to the family, takes care of the farm, looks after their grandfather, and tries to preserve their way of life.
Meanwhile, Murph, although brilliant, comes off as more self-centered—she cuts off communication for years and rarely even asks about her father.
It’s as if the film romanticizes Murph's intellect and rebellion, while overlooking Tom’s quiet dedication and emotional resilience."